Category: Productivity

  • End Of Year Reflection For 2015

    End Of Year Reflection For 2015

    As important as it is to take action, it’s probably twice as important to reflect and take stock of where you’ve been, in order to get to where you need to go.

    2015 has been a year of major breakthroughs, deep lows and great learnings.

    What started off as rocky after losing my Sister In Law, has been a massive year of growth.

    This was the year to deal with things stuffed away so deeply, that I didn’t even realize were there.

    I’ve learned more about myself in the last few months, than in the past decade.

    I’ve finally accepted things I was either in denial about, or chose to ignore.

    Whatever no longer served me, was improved, refined or just wiped out. But I’m nowhere near finished, because I’m a work in progress.

    This year was real, raw and honest.

    I’ve acted SO out of character (in good AND bad ways), yet SO on point.

    It’s been tiring, but the most exhilarating and alive I’ve felt in ages.

    Clarity is such a sweet thang.

    I can see my big picture vision, and whilst the exact process isn’t mapped out in great detail, I CAN see the next few steps.

    I know that I have some awesome peeps to serve, and I’m working out how to best serve them.

    I’m TRUSTING that all will be revealed.

    I’m excited and scared, but SO FREAKING READY FOR THIS!

    To serve you.

    To keep you accountable.

    To help you take action NOW.

    To allow you to stay in flow while you create magic.

    To keep things simple for you – yet powerful.

    So you see this year was a really mixed bag.

    One that turned out differently to how I had imagined when I asked for clarity.

    I may have clarity, but let me tell you that the journey doesn’t end here.

    I know that I will change, and so will you.

    Let’s embrace this change together.

    It’s time.

    Time to shine

    Time to create the vision in your mind.

    Time to do what you’ve been ‘meaning’ to do.

    Be sure to take some time over the next week to reflect on your journey.

    What did you do really well?

    What did you learn?

    What will you take with you in 2016?

    What do you need to let go of?

    How will you apply your new learnings?

    How will you your new way of being serve your peeps?

    I’ll be taking some time off to do the the same.

    Until 5th January, I’ll be offline planning for 2016, while closing off this year.(You’ll probably still receive emails from me though) 🙂

     

    FYI I’m running a FREE 7 Day Mind:Body:Spirit Reset Challenge starting January 18th

     

    I want to take this time to wish you a fabulous Christmas!

     

    I can’t wait to smash 2016 together

  • How I Finished 2015 Better Than It Started (And How You Can Too)

    How I Finished 2015 Better Than It Started (And How You Can Too)

    It’s been a brilliant year of growth for me.

    What started out as one of the worst years of my life, after losing my Sister inlaw to cancer last year, has ended as one of the best!

    What made it so damn good?

    Hhhmmmm 

    I guess I took action this year without even knowing what the big picture was going to look like – a big thing for a Virgo like me 🙂

    I used to take so much time to meticulously plan something that would actually never get executed.

    If only I knew then what I know now……

    action kicks planning’s butt!

    But before all that action, I gave myself the gift of time to heal at the start of the year.

    I deactivated my FB, got healthy and cut the crap out of my life which included food, people, habits + beliefs.

    Here are the top 5 things that helped me go from apathetic couch potato to action taking Zen Hustler.

    Share Your Message (Even If You Don’t Know What It Is)

    After taking time out to regroup, I came back to my Business without a clear direction of what my message was.

    I had changed so much since starting Zen Hustler, that I really didn’t know what I stood for anymore. 

    This made sharing my message quite difficult because I had a vision in my head & heart that I couldn’t express. Besides feeling frustrated, it was also doing nothing to grow my business.

    So I started sharing thoughts, or tools I found and experimenting with offers.

    I found the more I shared my thoughts, the clearer my message became to me and other peeps.

    Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step – Martin Luther King

     Write Daily

    As simplistic as it sounds, it’s super important to write something – even if it’s “I don’t know what to write”.

    I’ve honestly written that over 20 times when nothing was coming to me during a writing sesh.

    The more space you allow for creativity, the more it longs to work through you. 

    My heart kept longing to share a message, that my mind just couldn’t comprehend.

    Writing is something I LOVE doing, but struggled with at the start because I couldn’t blend mind, heart & spirit.

    The reason the triangle couldn’t come together was because there was no consistency with my writing.

    Rather than ONLY writing when ‘feelings inspired’, I chose to include writing into my daily schedule.

    This meant that whether I felt like it or not, I was going to write something.

    Respect Your Business

    When I started to treat my business as it should be treated – a vessel to serve my life purpose, it responded back with kindness.

    I used to work around my social schedule.

    Now that doesn’t mean I no longer have time out for me, it’s quite the opposite really.

    Start treating it like you would a job, by creating work hours.

    I still have the morning time to myself before I start my day, and finish by school pickup. Some days there are after school activities so I have more time for fun (work).

    The point being, create structure + boundaries for your day.

    Connect

    My word for this year was connection.

    I didn’t end up looking like I had planned, but I sure did connect.

    The goal was to join an in-person women’s networking group, and for some reason it never felt like the right time.

    In hindsight I understand that I was still healing from grief, and finding my voice again.

    I trusted and still maintained that intention – even when I didn’t think I would ever get to start.

    And then it happened, towards the end of the year I was able to connect with a bunch of awesome women through FB groups who I DID end up meeting in person.

    This was definitely one of the highlights of my year, and contributed to ending the year on such a high.

    Try to include some offline connections, particularly the peeps you actually interact with online.

    Magic happens when you meet awesome peeps in person. 

    Devotion

    I’ve spoken about this in a previous blog post, but I need to mention it again.

    I removed discipline from my life, and re-introduced devotion.

    When you are devoted to something, discipline just comes naturally.

    Connecting to my big why, which for me are: being able to pick/drop my Daughter from school, AND help women hustle + flow to create a biz filled with fun & freedom has helped me stay focused.

    I’m devoted to changing women’s lives and giving my Daughter a better life with both having her Mum at home, as well as financial stability.

    I choose devotion to my cause, rather than grinding to the discipline drum.

    Have you had a great year? Share your highlights below

  • Why Discipline Is Just Another Buzz Word That Doesn’t Work

    Why Discipline Is Just Another Buzz Word That Doesn’t Work

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    Whenever I didn’t follow through or succeed at something, I always thought it was because I didn’t apply myself enough, or mainly because I lacked discipline.

    I’ve beat myself about it, ‘tried’ to change it, and would constantly set up all these new ‘systems’ to overcome this failure. Some of the things I tried ranged from having a set schedule everyday to completing time management programs.

    Nothing worked.

    Maybe I was forever destined to be the ‘start and never finish’ kinda gal.

    My heart + soul was craving completion though so there was massive inner turmoil. The joy of watching something grow from a little seed of hope into a flourishing bold entity of it’s own, just kept eluding me.

    There was that dreaded word discipline that just kept popping up everywhere. Everywhere I turned I heard it from people who have lost weight to successful business owners earning multiple six figures.

    WTF did that mean anyway?

    Does it mean forcing yourself to work 10 hour days because you’re so passionate about your project?

    Or perhaps continue doing the thing that you’re supposed to do, even  if you’re feeling flat and de-motivated because THAT is what gets you through?

    This had me baffled for years until one sweet day the bright and shiny penny dropped.

    It suddenly occurred to me that I didn’t need discipline when I had DEVOTION.

    Yep just one word shift, has turned my whole business (and life) around.

    You see the word discipline itself invokes a feeling of pushing, forcing, coercion and just general pressure to perform.

    As a Zen Hustler, I firmly believe in making shit happen and not waiting for something to miraculously fall out of the sky while you’re sitting back ‘manifesting’ it.

    However, I do believe that in order to make that epic stuff happen – your mindset needs to be in the right space.

    This one distinction has dramatically changed the flow of my work from one of resistance to joyous productivity.

    You naturally devote yourself to things you love, right?

    And it’s so instinctive, that it doesn’t feel like work.

    I want you to approach this with an open heart + mind. What if you applied the same principles to your business/work?

    This simple word shift takes you from, just wanting to make money – which I’m all up for (it’s why we’re in business) to SERVING your tribe.

    Imagine making money AND serving your peeps effortlessly, while having fun.

    I can honestly say this has taken away the dread of ‘go hard’ when I can’t even kickstart let alone ‘go’.

    And the best part is, you can start RIGHT NOW.

    The point of power is always in the present moment – Louise L Hay.

    Some questions to think about.

    Why do you love what you do?

    If money wasn’t an issue and you had a choice to do ANYTHING in the world, would you still do what you’re doing now?

    You may need do delve a little deeper if the answers don’t come to you easily.

    I have added devotion to my vision board and constantly repeat it to myself as I write my to-do list, complete tasks or work when I don’t really feel like working.

    If you’re stuck and can’t make the switch over, I’m here to help.

    I’d love to hear the words that shifted things for you, so be sure to share below.

    P.S End Of Year Hustle starts tomorrow, and was created as a sacred space of devotion + action to your passion. It’s 8 days of taking action to bring your vision to life. . 

     

     

  • How To Actually Finish What You Start Like A Zen Hustler

    How To Actually Finish What You Start Like A Zen Hustler

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    One of the main reasons I created my business is because I’m passionate about what I do and LOVE to run my own show.

    Yet every year around this time, I start to sub-consciously wind down, which clearly stems from years of working in the corporate world. Back then I couldn’t wait for the year to end so that I could go into holiday mode.

    I’ve been doing my thang in one way or another for the last 12 years, so I clearly love what I do, and yet I find myself stuck in Employee mindset.

    This year is different though.

    I’ve finally learned the art of turning work into fun, so that I don’t need to switch off. Now don’t get me wrong I’m going to have some down time, where I won’t be as active as normal BUT I’ll STILL be here doing what I love.

    This switch off mentality, reminds me of another bad habit that I managed to break.

    For years I was BRILLIANT at the start-up creation process and pretty crap at finishing, and over the years I’ve managed to see things through to completion.

    I found my own way of pushing through when I needed to, and pulling back when my intuition told me otherwise.

    Here are a few things that have help me finish what I started (when I don’t really want to).

    Map It All Out

    It’s so easy to chunk up your vision into one big ball of an idea, which means it’s going to be an overwhelming mess that’s impenetrable.

    It’s important to have a clear understanding of the next steps you need to take.

    This is a really simple process that’s so powerful.  Just grab your notebook – personally I sometimes like to use a blank paper i.e. no lines and a bunch of different coloured markers.

    So for example if I’m stuck on what to offer as a product, I’ll just start writing the things I can help my peeps with, it might be clearing mindset blocks around building a business or teaching them my Hustle + Flow Method.

    I’ll start to notice a theme which helps me tie into a program or offering.

    You’ll find the more brain dumping you do, the clearer your mind becomes.

    Once you’ve done the ‘clearing’ stage, then you can start to piece it all together and create a plan of action.

    Break that down even further by creating your ka-chingers (tasks) so you have a step by step plan of things you can do daily to get to the end goal.

    Follow Your Gut

    I think you know me well enough by now to know that I go beyond the logical technical stuff.

    When you’re REALLY resisting something you need to stop and ask yourself, “is this what I want to do or something I feel I MUST do?”

    Is it in alignment with where you’re at?

    There are plenty of times when I’ve done something because my Mentor told me or someone I know had great success with or even worse I was so desperate that I’d try anything.

    I’ve also just been plain lazy many times.

    Only YOU know the answer, and it’s important to be honest with yourself.

    Ask The Cosmos

    The last couple of years have had their fair share of unpredictable ups and downs – or so I thought until I connected with the Cosmos.

    Even if you don’t believe in Unicorns and Fairies, being able to understand what’s happening on a universal level can change the way you operate and in turn increase your productivity levels.

    Working with the Lunar Cycle, has allowed me to take charge of my emotional highs and lows which affect my ability to produce and finish what I started.

    I highly recommend you look into it further, and if you want to know more let’s chat.

    Accountability Buddy

    Find a buddy to keep you accountable or a like minded group of action takers.

    Stop Thinking About It

    Moaning, whining, stressing and procrastinating aren’t going to get you anywhere. Nothing replaces just doing it. Nuff said.

    The Last Trick Up My Sleeve

    I’m not a coffee drinker, but when I just can’t get in that zone I make myself an Iced coffee (Coconut Mylk + Stevia thanks) put on some good music, turn off all distractions and Just. Freaking. Do. IT.

     

     

     

  • What I Tell Myself When I Need To Take Action NOW & Don’t Feel Like It

    What I Tell Myself When I Need To Take Action NOW & Don’t Feel Like It

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    Running a business can be tough in general, and especially when you gotta do stuff at the times you’d rather be chilling out with a glass of wine/tea/coffee.

    In fact as I write this, I kinda feel like kicking back and watching some reality TV (one of my favourite ways to zone out) but right now I’m in the middle launching  End Of Year Hustle so it’s ….well…hustle time 🙂

    Being the Zen Hustler, you would think that I’ve mastered the art of hustling right? Well that’s partly true, because I don’t ALWAYS feel like hustling – EVEN though I LOVE it.

    Here are 3 things I tell myself when I need to action and just don’t feel like it.

     WHY Did I Start My Business?

    My Daughter is my world AND driving force.

    Everything I do is to give her a better life, AND spend as much time with her as I can. The thought of working for somebody else who is going to tell me when I can see my child, quite frankly makes my stomach turn.

    I absolutely LOVE school pick up /drop off, as well as the flexibility to keep her home if she’s sick or grabbing her from school when I get a phone call saying she’s unwell.

    Just writing this has charged me up again.

    Think about the reason you started your business.

    Do you have a big-picture vision? Tap into that feel it, see it, taste it.

    Go back to basics, and if you haven’t already write out what your ideal day would look like using the Perfect Day Exercise. Include everything from the time you wake up, to the time you sleep and what a fun and fulfilling day looks like for you.

    Connect with that again.

    It’s so easy to slide into your headspace of go-go-go when focusing on what you need to do, and while the DOING is great, it’s the BEING that builds what you create on solid ground.

    There Are People Who Need me And I’m Here To Serve

    Business has to be about more than just making money.

    Don’t get me wrong it’s super important, but without a deeper meaning it ends up becoming a chore.

    To be honest, sometimes I can get caught up in the money making side of it, and I don’t really enjoy building my business as much.

    But when money + passion are combined – now that’s when the magic happens, and I feel in flow again.

    Is It Procrastination Or Do I Need Time Out?

    Understanding the difference between putting something off and genuinely needing time out, is important.

    When I’m in this space, I stop and go within using my intuition + logic. I journal to see what comes up for me when my head is overloaded and look at what has led to me to this point.

    If I can hand-on-heart say that I’ve honestly given my all and it’s time to regroup, then I pull back, and stop.

    I’ll watch some reality TV, read, journal, spend time with loved ones, hug a tree or just step outside.

    I’d love to hear your self-talk when you don’t feel like doing something – share below.

     

     

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